The last few days have been a blur. I had been looking forward to my work trip near Coimbatore and some fun times in Madras with friends and family. I did have fun, but I was mostly tired and sleep-deprived; plus the whole trip is now a foggy haze of delayed flights, airport counters, train journeys, lots of food, lack of exercise and an intense yet futile attempt at napping through all of this.
On the bright side, though, the trip was productive. I was put up at the most gorgeous resort outside of Coimbatore, as part of my assignment, and for the first time in a very long while, I was cut off from people I knew, and was free to be myself, do what I pleased, without having to check if the other person was cool with it. Most of all, I did not have to control anything, which was such a relief. I cycled up hilly tracks, revelled in the lush greenery all around me, spent what seemed like hours watching clouds drift over the hills, making the mountains appear different every few seconds, and chilled on the porch by the plunge pool like nobody’s business.
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Hotel reviews are always fun; they don’t seem like much work, and you’re guaranteed the best service because folks at the hotel know why you’re here. They invited you over, for God’s sake. So, really, it’s hedonistic, in a sense; those who aren’t as self-aware tend to nit-pick, and worse still, expect to be treated like bloody royalty. I’m wary of the pitfalls, and staying grounded is crucial for me. So I don’t approach these assignments through the lens of a review, but it’s just an account of my experiences; if something doesn’t work, I slip it in, but I’m not one to fuss over the thread-count of the bed linen or obsess over the variety of tea and snacks in the mini-bar. When we shortlist hotels to review, we usually do a lot of research, and only pick properties we think are worth reviewing, among the pile of invites sent to us; so, to some extent, we know if it’s worth a review even before we get there, although there are some rare cases where rude shocks lurk in every corner. My former editor once took a bus to review a resort in Himachal Pradesh or Uttarakhand, and to his utter shock, the property wasn’t even complete, and the room he was allotted was in such bad shape that he had to tell the PR folks that a review would not be possible. Thankfully, I’ve been luckier.
Although I absolutely loved being by myself at this fabulous place, I sometimes wished M had come along; would’ve been nice to have some company. Not that I was bored or lonely, but there’s only so much of enforced solitude that I can take. Only so much of ‘people-watching’ and gazing at clouds, hills and greenery that one can do. I’d be lying if I said it was life-changing and therapeutic. It was relaxing, of course; I was pampered to no end, had two very rejuvenating spa sessions, and even a private barbecue in the backyard. But pleasures like these are deeper when shared. And while I thought that I’d snore the night away, sleep proved very elusive, surprisingly. I’d stay up watching something on the TV both nights and try to doze off, but it was a struggle.
It was a welcome change of pace, though, and I got to meet and interact with some genuinely warm and friendly people, two of whom I hope to stay in touch with, professionally, at least. And then I broke my dry reading spell with the superbly warm and fuzzy book, A Man Called Ove. I cried a bit towards the end, and the book just reaffirmed my faith in people, in humanity. I realised I tend to devour decently-sized books – 300-400 pages – but the big fat ones intimidate the hell out of me. Case in point: A Suitable Boy. This is my third attempt at reading it, and after 200 pages or so, I’ve hit a slump of sorts, and I’m cheating on it with other smaller, breezier books.
In Madras, I broke another dry spell and watched a movie at the cinema hall after ages. Dunkirk at Sathyam Cinemas. Had a bite of that vegetable puff at the canteen, and it took me back in time to 2008-2012, when going to the cinema, particularly at Sathyam, was a ritual. I love Christopher Nolan, and Dunkirk, no doubt, is a masterpiece; but to me, it was a difficult film to watch. It was too real, there was no sugar-coating, no backstories for characters, and no conversations. It was gripping, unsettling, and spectacular. But I wanted mush. I wanted lighter moments. Clearly Nolan did not think so, and of course, he’s always right. So I went home, feeling slightly conflicted, and wasn’t sure if I loved the movie, but now, on hindsight, I think I did. Little moments in the film stand out, and make you marvel at the unflinching strength and pride of its characters; they may not have said a word, but their actions speak volumes. And it’s only when that realisation dawned did I understand what a great movie this is.
I’m back in Hyderabad now, and today I’ve decided to be a couch potato. I need a day to recuperate and catch up on lost sleep; we landed at the unearthly hour of 1 am, and by the time we reached home, it was 2.30 am. And then we chose to unpack and sort out our bags before we went to bed, and I’m usually crabby when I’ve had less than 7 hours of shut-eye (last night it was five, so my tiredness seems justified). There’s work to be done, mails to be sent, food to be cooked, a treadmill to be run on, but there’s always tomorrow. Today is a Netflix-and-chill kind of day, and I mean it in the literal sense – I’m going to watch Netflix and just chill and not move a muscle – not the twisted millennial double entendre that I was blissfully unaware of until I used the phrase in all earnestness. Thank you internet!